Closing the Door on 2017

What a wonderful week it was to be able to stay home, celebrate Christmas with the family, and make plans for the New Year. How did this year pass so quickly? As I look back, I've had more ups than downs, more good health than sickness, more joy than sorrow, and more laughter than tears. It's been a very good year for me. 

Others may have had a difficult year. I was reading through some posts on Facebook about how some were so glad 2017 was over. I thought about how there are always trials in this imperfect life: times when you wish things were different, that your pain would go away, or you could get a do-over for something. I will choose not to dwell on those, but rather look to the future. Specifically, I want to look to the future through the lens of God's promises and not the lens of fear. 

Psalm 91:14-16 "Because he has set his love upon Me, therefore I will deliver him; I will set him on high, because he has known My name. He shall call upon Me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him and honor him. With long life I will satisfy him, and show him My salvation."

Christmas Eve

Isaiah 9:6 For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

I wish to everyone sweet Christmas blessings and to remember His many names as you approach and a new year.

Joy after Pain

I admit it. I'm one of those people who cannot seem to make it through the holiday season without the stress getting to me. But it's not the season, the gifts, or the celebrations; it's the stress from work with deadlines and just wanting to be done for the year. Last year, it began the week before Christmas with severe pain in my left shoulder. It was so bad that I barely completed work and sought out doctors for relief. I saw a physical therapist, a chiropractor and a massage therapist. By the end of January, I began functioning close to normal again.

This year it began at Thanksgiving, along with a cold. I was really surprised since I was walking a couple of miles each day in an effort to keep my stress levels low and I had also not been sick in about 2 years. Regardless, I was determined to not let it rob me of a pleasant time off again. I began with the chiropractor and massage therapist; no relief. Next was the doctor and muscle relaxers, which did not help. Then I tried flotation therapy (floating in a tub of magnesium salts) which I imagine would be as effortless as floating in the Dead Sea. That treatment actually did help the pain to subside. My doctor had also recommended a different massage therapist and I went there Friday morning. Thankfully, the float and the new therapist have reduced my pain to only a slight nuisance! I am so happy that I can finish this upcoming week and hopefully enjoy the Christmas season with little to no pain!

Ecclesiastes 7:14 In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: Surely God has appointed the one as well as the other, so that man can find out nothing that will come after him.

We live on earth, so we cannot escape sickness or pain. I do believe that it did not get as bad this year, so for that I am thankful and joyful!

It's Snow Much Fun!

The weather forecasters predicted snow on Friday. December in Georgia is just not the time one would expect to see snow. We were skeptically hopeful. We trudged off to school and work, going about our day. The rains began and we sighed. Hours later, there was a mix of rain and snow, then only snow. It was beautiful, peaceful and welcome. 

We left work and school early, expecting it to stop snowing any minute. The snow kept coming and we watched it through our bay window. It was beautiful with the Christmas lights aglow. We went to sleep, fully expecting the snow to be over when we awoke. It was still snowing throughout the morning. When it stopped around 10 am, we had a winter wonderland on our doorstep with 3.5 inches of snow. We tromped through the snow, slid down hills and built a snowman. In early December. In Georgia. I guess God wanted us to have snow. :)

Job 37:5-7 God thunders marvelously with His voice; He does great things which we cannot comprehend. For He says to the snow, 'Fall on the earth'; likewise to the gentle rain and the heavy rain of His strength. He seals the hand of every man, that all men may know His work. 

Double Whammy

It had been almost a full year since I had problems with my upper back and two years since I had a cold. Guess what? I got kicked HARD this week! My back started to bother me over last weekend, but I just kept pushing. The irritation in my throat began on Monday. They both steadily worsened. By Wednesday, I thought I could go home early from work and knock out the cold, then see the chiropractor about my back. Uh, no.

I tried home remedies that I thought would improve the condition (and perhaps they did), but here I am on Sunday wondering if I'll finally make it back to work tomorrow. The cold has now settled into a cough and my back has improved slightly after a visit to the chiropractor and a massage therapist.  I've been told I have many adhesions in my back muscles, which are causing the pain. I'm doing stretches throughout the day to release them, but it will be a slow process. 

It's weeks like these when in the middle of the night you are walking the floors praying for relief from your maladies. You're unable to go about your normal day and everything that you think is important falls to the wayside. Your focus changes from what needs to be done to simply hoping this passes as quickly as possible. Even still, you are not alone. You know Jesus cares for you and is bearing us up during our time of infirmity and sickness.

Matthew 8:16b-17 And He cast out the spirits with a word, and healed all who were sick, that it might be fulfilled which was spoken by Isaiah the prophet, saying: "He Himself took our infirmities and bore our sicknesses." 

Joy from the Heart

The beginning of my week-long vacation seemed a lot like work. It was a good time to complete some projects. I mowed an area of grass in front of my house and put up some outdoor Christmas decorations last weekend. I fulfilled a birthday present about 7.5 months late by getting my Dad's truck washed and waxed. However, I didn't want the week to be all about work. 

I wanted to make some good memories and share joy with my 11-year-old. On Tuesday evening, we explored "Holiday in the Park" at Six Flags. It was chilly, but not freezing like last year. On Wednesday evening, we picked up her friend that usually goes with us to church on those nights. Without a service, I took them to Chick-fil-A for supper and explored "Magical Nights of Lights" at Lanier Islands. They took so many pictures, it made me smile!

Thursday found us at my sister's house for Thanksgiving and a rather lazy afternoon. I even took her for a some early shopping that day. By the end of the week, we'd put up and decorated the tree, then cooked another turkey dinner. I've lost count now of how many Hallmark Christmas Movies we've seen! Popcorn and oranges have been popular this week and both of us lamenting about returning to school tomorrow. The week has almost passed in a blur, but God has kept us busy with the joy residing in our hearts.

Ecclesiastes 5:19-20 As for every man to whom God has given riches and wealth, and given him power to eat of it, to receive his heritage and rejoice in his labor - this is the gift of God. For he will not dwell unduly on the days of his life, because God keeps him busy with the joy of his heart. 

Run the Race

My son had a goal this year. He wanted to earn a varsity letter in cross country. He began running in June 2016 with the team. Every morning they were running by 6 a.m. and he ran every meet through the fall. He improved enough to get the last spot on the team headed to the state championship race. At the end of that season, he kept running and joined the track and field team to stay in shape. In June 2017, the 6 a.m. runs began again. By fall, he was getting a personal record in almost every 5K he ran. He was 3rd in the Regional JV race and again got to go to the state championship. From his first 5K to his most recent regional 5K, he has improved by about 3 minutes. His current personal record is 18 min, 22 sec.  That's a 5:55 min mile for 3.1 miles! 

On Tuesday, he received his varsity letter. He also received a patch for state and for Athlete Scholar because of his unweighted 3.95 GPA in High School. I'm just amazed at what he has been able to accomplish because of his unwavering focus to reach his goal.

Hebrews 12:1-2 Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

We are to run the race that is set before us. Do you ever ask yourself what your race is and if you are running it with endurance, i.e. everything you've got? I do.

Mobile, AL

This week I spent 3 days in Mobile at a new-to-me conference. There were only 150 people in attendance and I knew only 3 people (who attended different sessions), so it was very easy to talk with new people because there was no other choice! The conference was very good and I learned a lot, but the thing I'll remember most was visiting a maritime museum.

Gulfquest is a hands-on maritime adventure that has only been open two years. It was 5 stories of things to try in the nautical arena, like tying sailor knots, piloting a mini sailboat, experiencing ocean winds, learning to use a sextant, playing navigation games, piloting simulators for diving, etc. Most impressive was the Ocean Planet Theater that allowed you to view a ton of oceanic maps on a suspended globe. The maps showed wind or water currents, turtle migration, volcano activity, wildfire activity, etc. It was simply amazing! 

I left the museum wanting to go back and enjoy more experiences. Then I got to thinking about all of the opportunities we miss because we are so busy with stuff that just doesn't matter. What would it be like to treat life like an adventure? 

Psalm 111:4a He has made His wonderful works to be remembered; 

Next

My church is on a journey that is fascinating. First, we are in the process of building a new worship center to house our growing congregation. Second, a new mission statement was unveiled and explained over the last few months. (To disciple one another to reach and raise the next generation to live out God's truth.).  And now, our pastor has revealed the direction to make an impact in our community. He quoted this:

"Another survey found that if a child is the first person in a household to become a Christian, there is a 3.5% probability everyone else in the household will follow. If the mother is the first to become a Christian, there is a 17% probability everyone else in the household will follow. However, when the father is first, there is a 93% probability everyone else in the household will follow.

Wow! The answer is staring us in the face. Reach the Dads to reach the family. As kids enter their teens, there are fewer and fewer who stay involved with the church. The boys I've observed who are still in church have a father who is very involved and leads their family by example. That's the Next Project and I'm excited to see the results!

Acts 16:31 And they said, Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, and thou shalt be saved, and thy house. 

Where did the Week Go?

It was just last Sunday. That was like yesterday, right?! I had no clue what a rocket ride this week would be. It started off weird last Sunday when after church, we had a guy working on removing a fence in my yard. It has taken weeks and weeks to get almost done, then the tractor broke down. In my yard. Monday came with torrential rains all day. My son had to practice running in it, so I did my morning walk in it. (I eventually got dry.) After work, we had to study for a calculus test he took the next day.

On Tuesday I thought I would get a break, but my daughter stayed longer at karate to get some schoolwork completed. We got home at dusk, then the dad of the guy (who owned the tractor) came late to pick up some tools that were in my garage. Thankfully they were able to get the tractor started earlier in the day. 

Then my week got really crazy. After work, I picked up my daughter and her friend for church. I help pack about 150 backpacks with food, then helped my son with calculus - in the car using the inside light. I got everyone back home and crashed. Thursday I worked a 1/2 day, ate lunch with Daddy and drove to Unicoi State Park to see my son race in a JV Boys Region Championship. He placed 3rd with a 5K personal record of 18:22.6 minutes (5.55 min/mile pace). Wow!!! It was so fun seeing him cross the finish line and come to me with a high five! I spent 4 hours walking, watching the team and taking photos. It was a beautiful day in the 60s. Just fabulous!

After the late Thursday, I took off Friday to celebrate my mom's birthday with my family. We surprised her at Cracker Barrel and just had a great time. I kept busy the rest of the day getting groceries and taking the younger child to a trunk or treat event at the karate studio.

I woke up Saturday to news that my Dad had been taken to the hospital with bronchitis or something similar. Mom and my sister were with him and he didn't want me to come, so I took my daughter shopping as promised. Seven hours later, we were through. After dinner, I headed up to the hospital to visit with him a while. He seemed a little better when I left.

So here we are on Sunday again. Dad has to stay one more night to get his energy up and I'm about to start working with my son on calculus again. But I am so thankful that we have the stamina to make it through weeks like this. I definitely feel like I've lived out this verse over the past week!

Proverbs 31:27 She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness.

Fields of Faith

On Wednesday, my 11-yr-old joined about 1000 preteens and teenagers meeting at a local high school stadium to eat, sing, and hear about Jesus. It was simply amazing to see so many kids from all around the county worshipping together. As the evening came to a close, at least a dozen kids came forward to surrender their lives to Jesus. Then everyone stood along the sidelines, completely surrounding the football field. What a joyful sight!

Luke 19:40 And he answered and said unto them, I tell you that, if these should hold their peace, the stones would immediately cry out.

Downtime

I am on my last day of a full week of vacation. I didn't take a trip or make big plans. I just proceeded through each day doing all of my usual things, except going to work. I did a lot of reading, helped the kids with homework, took the younger one to and from school, and tried to help mom and dad figure out their phones, iPads and Fitbits. However, there were two things that were not ordinary.

I donated a large amount of goods to a thrift store that locally supports victims of domestic violence. I talked with one of the staff and she explained how some goods were used directly by the families, while the rest were sold to the public, with proceeds going to support the facility housing the families or to pay their legal fees. I liked the set up and was happy to donate. 

Later in the week, I drove an hour just to have lunch with a friend I hadn't seen in a while. Although we only got to be together for an hour and a half, it was well worth the time. We both enjoyed the change in our routine and getting together was exactly what each of us needed.

Ecclesiastes 4:9 Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor.

Keeping my Word

Making a decision can be easy and hard at the same time. Choosing an outfit or even a meal may seem challenging on occasion, but in the big picture those choices are not the ones you often think about later. This week I was faced with a decision that tugged at my heart. Weeks earlier, my son volunteered me to help at a National Honor Society induction ceremony. I happily agreed since he was an officer in the organization at his high school. A week before the event, I received a notice that my daughter would have a black belt midterm for karate at the same time. I couldn't believe it! I had never missed one of my daughter's tests, but I had already committed to the other event.

Obviously, I stayed with my commitment. There was really no choice. Both of them knew that I had to keep my word. However, it was tough when my daughter pointed out that I had never missed one of her tests. Still, we made the best of our situation. An hour before her midterm, I took her a snack and sat in the car with her for about 15 minutes. My mom attended and filmed my daughter's self-defense and form routines while I worked at the induction ceremony. I watched her test when I returned home.

Matthew 5:37 But let your 'Yes' be 'Yes,'  and your 'No,' 'No.' For whatever is more than these is from the evil one. 

Gaining Wisdom

This week flew by like a rushing river! My son and I studied calculus during lunches and evenings because I was heading out of town for three days. We crammed in all of the studying we could. My daughter finished her homework Monday, on the off chance she might need my input. I headed to Atlanta for a conference running Wednesday through Friday. I did the same thing they did, by working furiously the first two days so I wouldn't get behind. I even took my son's calculus and worked on it between sessions so I wouldn't get behind.

The conference was good and the session leaders gave me some great ideas I'd like to use at work. It was great seeing friends and colleagues, and just having a break from the office. I needed that more than anything.

As I look back on the week, I see it as exceptionally busy, but I also see it as a sharing of wisdom. I gave what wisdom I had to make things easier for my kids and I gave my attention to those at the conference who could share their wisdom with me.

Proverbs 18:4 The words of a man's mouth are deep waters; the wellspring of wisdom is a flowing brook.

Life Changes

I've been listening to a song called "Life Changes" this week. There's a part I really like: "You make your plans and you hear God laughing. Ain't it funny how life changes. And I wouldn't change it for the world." It makes me smile when I think about all of the varied plans I've had over the years that got derailed, edited or simply trashed.

During my last year in college, I sent out applications all over the southeast. I was willing to move wherever the job took me. I ended up back in my hometown teaching at my alma mater. Later, I was going to make sure my kids ate good food. Unfortunately their diets consist of lots of take out, but I still have visions of us eating better. I'm also still planning to clean out my garage (don't laugh Daddy!).

No matter what, Someone a whole lot smarter has plans for me. :)

Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

Hurricane Irma

I was having internet issues last weekend, so I was unable to post my blog. We were also preparing for the first ever tropical storm to hit our area. Typically hurricanes are downgraded to tropical depressions by the time they reach north Georgia, but not Irma. The strong winds took out trees and power lines in great numbers. Almost everyone lost power, some as many as 5 days. We were fortunate in losing power only 15 hours. The local school system remained closed all week.

I spent yesterday cleaning up the mark Irma left on my yard. Not severe, but enough to keep me busy all day. I sit here now enjoying the sunshine and 90 degree temps. Such a change from less than a week ago. We have electricity, internet and clear roadways. We arrived at church with no issues. We even got to leave our own marks on a mural that will go in the new sanctuary. Mom, my kids and I left our hand prints on boards that will show we were there and are ready for the NEXT chapter at our church.

Ephesians 3:20-21 Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

Labor Day

It's Labor Day Weekend and I'm not in Pigeon Forge. That's my usual destination to go shopping and welcome fall. With the 'hard to forecast' weather and just pure exhaustion, I elected to stay home and regroup. Oh, I still went shopping on Friday night and my daughter and I had breakfast at Cracker Barrel as usual. But Saturday afternoon was spent cleaning up the blue room (aka play room) and Sunday was spent at church, then helping my son with calculus.

Now I sit here alone listening to the clock tick. I feel like melting and becoming one with the chair. I'm so relaxed. It's that time when I don't think about what's left to be done or what I should do next. I just am. It's peaceful, it's welcome, it's needed. It's a gift that I gladly accept.

Matthew 11:28 Come to me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.

One Crazy Week

This was one crazy week!

Monday - My Dad's new doctor confirmed a more accurate diagnosis, which will take him off some nasty drugs (Thank you, Lord!); my failure at work from last week was resolved; my 16- year old started full-time dual enrollment at the college (Yikes!); the first day of classes began for about 8000 students on campus; had to adjust to helping two kids with homework; oh, and there was a 97% solar eclipse!

Tuesday through Thursday - I tried to recover from Monday and get in a new groove.

Friday - My daughter spent the night with a friend. I got a call around 10:30 pm informing me that she had been bitten in the mouth by the family's dog. (I think being broken in by a fearless son kept me from rushing over.) They cleaned the wound and covered it with neosporin. I told her to take Tylenol and an hour later she said she was good and wanted to stay. 

Saturday - Left the house before 7 am to see my son run in a 5K. He ran it in 19 min 47 sec, only 15 sec off his personal record; late afternoon I volunteered at the college for the Starlight event (a welcome back for students and the community); fireworks rounded out the evening.

I'm so glad God designed a day of rest because I really needed it!

Genesis 2:2 And on the seventh day God ended His work which He had done, and He rested on the seventh day from all His work which He had done. 

Mistakes

I really dislike making mistakes, but I'm human and make them all of the time. Seems like I would get used to it, but when I discover them the feeling of embarrassment floods me. This week, my glaring mistake was made months and months ago when I transposed two numbers in a single line of data. That sounds simple, but the effects are huge. I have 10 days to correct them. It's doable. The corrections will be done, even if I have to correct all 14,404 lines of data. However, I will have help.

First I admitted my mistake and took ownership, I investigated the effects of the error, I went to those who knew more and asked many questions, and came up with test plan to make the correction. Thankfully the test worked. This week we will actually replace the bad numbers with correct numbers. If it goes as planned, we will have kept it from becoming a critical issue.

Life as a Christian is much like taking ownership of your mistakes. In order to be forgiven, you must acknowledge the problem.

Psalm 32:1 Blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. 

Middle School

It happened. My baby started middle school this week. Neither of us was ready, but time marched us to this point. I think she was less nervous than I was. She actually slept well the night before and was ready to go early. Her reaction to day one was not favorable, but day two was good. As the week progressed, we tried to set up a new routine. Unfortunately, we ended up eating out three evenings just because I didn't plan well.

Since middle school is such a change, I really wanted to surround her with another focus. Our church has a large program just for middle schoolers. She went to an intro picnic for 6th graders, started attending a Bible class for 6th grade girls and attended the Wednesday evening middle school group. I'm hopeful she will make some good friends and realize that life is not all about school. Balance is what I'm praying for her life.

Proverbs 13:20 He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of folks will be destroyed.

A Day Off

I took a rare, summer day off last Monday because we just needed a day to recharge before school started back. I told my 11-year-old we could do whatever she wanted. "Sleep late." That's the answer I got. She got her wish while I worked a couple of volunteer hours at her new middle school.

I asked my 16-year-old what he wanted to do. "Buy running shoes." He also got his wish. What about me? I just wanted to spend time with the kids. I took them to lunch at a place with outdoor tables. We talked over a variety of topics and spent almost 2 hours doing only that. Perfection! :) 

Some days are made to be taken slowly and savored.

Ecclesiastes 8:15 So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun.

Taking Time to Listen

Sometimes I hold back words of advice and just listen to my kids talk. It gives them a sounding board without feeling they are going to be judged. I find that when they are given that time, they'll get my opinion about some things that they are contemplating. It feels good to know they will ask.

Proverbs 1:5 A wise man will hear, and increase learning; and a man of understanding will attain wise counsel. 

Last night was nice because my 16-yr-old son was in a talkative mood. It was late and I needed a shower, but those times to just talk are fleeting and I was not about to give it up to stay on a schedule. We sat in his room for over an hour chatting about school, friends and future plans. He's one of the most focused people I know. He has big plans for college, but knows life has no guarantees. He has contingency plans if things don't follow the path he has envisioned. It's incredible seeing that drive in someone so young. I feel blessed to have been able to spend that time with him.

Have To or Get To?

Do you 'Have To' or 'Get To'? It's a simple question that you could apply to anything and everything you do in your life. Think about what you say when you are talking to someone about what you are doing. Here are some examples. How would you fill in the blanks?

I _____ to go to work. 

I _____ to go to the beach. 

I _____ to go to the doctor. 

I _____ to drive to the mountains.

I _____ to spend time with my family.

I _____ to do the laundry.

I _____ to exercise.

I _____ to go to church.

I wonder how much happier I would be if I made the effort to say and believe 'I Get to' in every situation? 

Proverbs 15:23 A man has joy by the answer of his mouth, and a word spoken in due season, how good it is!

Stone Mountain

When I was a kid, we often spent a day at Stone Mountain. We'd climb up, wander around, climb down, then have a picnic lunch. It didn't matter what we ate because we were always starving after the trek. Good memories.

I realized my 11-year-old had never experienced it, so I set aside Wednesday to make up for my lack of adventure with her. She didn't want to climb the mountain, but being the cruel mother I am, I told her we must! And we did! She loved it and gave me a high five at the summit. :) It was peaceful just to sit and relax.

The remainder of the day consisted of a picnic lunch, driving over a covered bridge, riding a train, seeing a 4D movie, riding the sky lift back up and down the mountain, and watching a fabulous LaserShow after dark.

Psalm 72:3 The mountains will bring peace to the people, and the little hills, by righteousness.

We made it home 15 hours after we left, but oh, what a fun time we had!

Treasures

We had a guest speaker at church today. His name was Sujo John. Although I had never heard his name, I won't soon forget it. He was born in India, studied business and moved to New York in early 2011. He and his wife found jobs at the Twin Towers. He was on the 71st floor of the North Tower when the first plane struck the 94th floor. Fires began almost immediately because of the jet fuel flowing down the elevator shafts and ductwork. It took him 80 minutes to climb down the stairs. No cell phones were working. He reached the ground and headed to the South Tower in search of his wife. He watched that tower collapse.

Sujo told those around him to call on the name of Jesus and be saved, He kept praying and made his way to a store. A woman there took his phone and called his wife. She answered. She had been late to work and arrived minutes after the first plane hit, so she left the immediate area because someone noticed she was expecting and told her she needed to leave to take care of the baby. They reunited and soon Sujo began touring the world talking about how God had saved them both.

One thing he said really stayed with me. Sujo was talking about not pursuing stuff, but rather doing what God planned for you. When you die, you can't take money, clothes, jewelry, toys, etc.

He said, "The only thing you can take with you is people."

Mark 16:15-16 And He said to them, "Go into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature. He who believes and is baptized will be saved; but he who does not believe will be condemned.

Rain and Reunions

We've been dodging raindrops for a week. I genuinely love rain, but I don't want to get caught in it too often. For me, it's best enjoyed when I can sleep late or curl up with a book. However, one afternoon, my friend and I were caught in a sudden downpour. Even with our umbrellas, we had to go back early because of the wind helping the rain soak us.

I was able to fit in a bike ride Saturday morning before another storm came that afternoon. Even today at a family reunion, we were trapped by a deluge that went on for 30 minutes. It gave us more time to laugh and talk with out extended family; and we had fun trying to guess when the rain was lightest so we could make a run for the cars. 

My grass will need another cutting in a day or two, but I don't have to water my new rose bushes. There is always something good. Just look for it. 

Acts 14:17 Nevertheless He did not leave Himself without witness, in that He did good, gave us rain from heaven and fruitful seasons, filling our hearts with food and gladness.

Party Time

I have been to 3 parties this week. The last party prior to this was probably...uh, I don't recall. The first one was at my house on Thursday to introduce some natural supplements that I have been using and wanted to share. It was a lot of fun to hear my house filled with laughter!

The next two were celebrations on Saturday. One was for the accomplishments of a new friend. It was a surprise party, orchestrated by her husband. He took her on a trip out of town while we gathered at their house. They actually hid our cars in a chicken house so she wouldn't know we were there until she got inside the house. It was crazy fun!

Lastly, we had a family reunion of my Dad's cousins. It was so great seeing everyone and sitting around talking for a few hours. We were especially thankful to be together with the man who hosts the event at his house. He had been critically injured three weeks ago, but was determined to keep the party going! He's healing and will remain in a neck brace throughout the summer, but he was smiling and enjoying the day.

Three parties - old friends, new friends and family. It doesn't get much better than that!

Ecclesiastes 8:15 So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun.

Wings

My son wants to be a pilot. He's 16 and just returned from a 7-day flight camp at Johnson Flight Academy in Mattoon, IL. To say he was happy would be an understatement. But it wasn't all fun and games. There were written tests, ground flight school and high winds keeping them grounded for several afternoons.

Although the middle of the week consisted of monotonous practice (said he did about 50 touch-and-gos), he flew all he could (10.3 hrs) and did multiple pre-solo flights. Those were flights unassisted by the instructor, with no directions at all. He was in total control and earned his wings from the Civil Air Patrol! It was so good to have him back home, but you could see the excitement dancing in his eyes. It won't be long until he's up in the air again.

I've been asked if it makes me nervous. No, I'm excited that he has found a passion that may become his career. I'll trust God to keep directing his path and providing the protection he needs, because he will never really fly alone.

Psalm 17:18 Keep me as the apple of Your eye; hide me under the shadow of Your wings.

Frustration and Relief

I was back at work this week and I could definitely tell I had been away. It typically takes a few hours just to sort through emails before I can actually work. We had orientation for new students, which only added to the chaos of the week. I've been working on some things for fall and was slowly but surely getting them on track. I encountered a couple of problems that were going to delay the launch, so for the sake of accuracy I asked for more time. The answer was no.

I had been in a good mood, but it quickly turned sour. I had planned to take off Friday, but that was no longer feasible. Instead, I worked Friday and Saturday. I feel like I got several days worth of work done in just that one day. No emails, interruptions or noise. I was exhausted when I left, but felt accomplished because I will meet my deadline after a bit of clean-up on Monday. 

A couple of good things came from my frustration. I was upset enough to want to work the extra day; I no longer have this enormous weight on my shoulders; and I get to take off at least one day next week. :)

Proverbs 14:23 In all labor there is profit, but idle chatter leads only to poverty.

An Almost Vacation

It was conference week for me, but this time I took my 11-year-old and mom. We were at Callaway Gardens for 3 days. While I attended meetings, they would take the car and go exploring. I joined them once for an excursion to the butterfly house and the chapel, but they were able to break away to the swimming pool, various restaurants and even some historical sites. My mom took the child to Warm Springs and the Little White House (against her will) and amazingly, she actually enjoyed her history lessons about FDR. :)

It was the 50th Anniversary celebration for GASFAA, so there were lots of activities planned. My daughter joined me for bingo, a funny photo booth and we had our caricatures done. It was a very busy but fun week.

Honestly, if I had another day there, I would have loved to take a bike and explore the many trails and history of Callaway. The grounds were beautiful and even in the rain you could feel His majesty surrounding you.

Psalm 145:5 I will meditate on the glorious splendor of Your majesty, and on Your wondrous works.

Good News

My week was filled with good news. On Tuesday I finally published a new project I had been working on for a couple of months. What a relief! Thursday, my son found out that he had been accepted to a one week flight camp. He was an alternate and was chosen late. The camp is in two weeks and we will have to rush to get him ready.

Today our pastor taught from Hebrews about knowing we are forgiven. Honestly, there's really not any better news than that!

Hebrews 10:12-14 But this Man, after He had offered one sacrifice for sins forever, sat down at the right hand of God, from that time waiting till His enemies armada His footstool. For by one offering He has perfected forever those who are being sanctified. 

Joys of the Heart

I've worked hard all week on various projects, so even though the house needed cleaning I took a break on Saturday to enjoy the day and go biking. After arguing for 30 minutes with my 11-year-old about wearing the padded bike shorts and exercise clothes instead of school clothes, we left the house with the whimpering child dressed appropriately. (I was not above dressing her myself at that point and I think she knew that!)

Unsure of what her mood might be, we stll ventured to a favorite trail that has some pretty difficult climbs. She only complained a little when we arrived, but got on her bike and took off. Within 10 minutes, all of the stress of the morning evaporated as we scooted through the shady paths.

I must admit that I've struggled to find an exercise that I will stick with until I thought back to what I enjoyed doing as a child. I used to ride my bike at my grandparents' house all summer long. Now I'm trying to get my daughter to enjoy it as much as I do. She's getting there.

I would call the trek successful. We biked, chatted, watched turtles, fish and deer, got some good exercise, breathed fresh air and felt accomplished after completing almost 7 miles.

Ecclesiastes 5:19-20 As for every man to whom God has given riches and wealth, and given him power to eat of it, to receive his heritage and rejoice in his labor - this is the gift of God. For he will not dwell unduly on the days of his life, because God keeps him busy with the joy of his heart. 

An Abundant Life

Sorry I didn't post last week, but I've been busier than normal. In the past 12 days I've tutored statistics, tatted a horseshoe and framed it for a gift, had a new mattress delivered, had someone repairing my house from last month's storm damage, attended a Plexus Big Reveal party, attended the RT Booklover's Convention in Atlanta, met one of my favorite authors, helped my son paint a ceiling tile for a class project, mowed the lawn, had an outdoor storage barn delivered, attended a middle school parent meeting, had 3 orientation presentations at work, practiced and competed in an end-of-year lip sync battle (I won), walked in the Hall County ACS Relay for Life, planted a rose bush for mom, passed 3 NASFAA Credential Exams, and I worked full-time doing end-of-term processing.

Now I've come to Mother's Day! You'd think I would be tired, but I feel great! I'm thankful for all of the energy the Lord has given me and for the wonderful opportunities to spend time with my family and doing what I love. It's not a busy life, but an ABUNDANT LIFE!

John 10:10b I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.

Happy Mother's Day to my Mama and to all those who are Moms to us all everywhere!

Just Fun

I'm one of those people who will go to work, even if I should stay home when I'm sick. Taking a personal day off seems weird to me, but I believe I discovered the advantage this week. I had a doctor's appointment on Wednesday morning and I needed a haircut three weeks ago. My hairdresser  could only fit me in during the afternoon. My solution? Take the whole day off. 

What a wonderful day! It was sunny, low 80s and my BFF made herself available most of the day. We went shopping, listened to a new CD, had a great lunch outside on a patio and laughed most of the time. It will be remembered as one of our best days together!

Ecclesiastes 3:1, 4b, 4d. To everything there is a season, A time for every purpose under heaven: ...And a time to laugh; ...And a time to dance;

I'm still on a happy high from just giving myself a chance to play and relax in the middle of the week.  You should try it sometime. :)

A Time to Keep

Last Thursday I spent my lunch break selling tickets for a region track and field meet at my son's high school. I saw him briefly and told him that his race time conflicted with a meeting I had that afternoon. On my way back to work, I decided that no meeting was worth missing my son's race, even if it was only exhibition. I swung by my house, picked up my good camera and returned to work. I made plans to miss the meeting and left a few hours later.

I got to see him shine. He ran the second leg of a 4-man race, running two of the eight laps. His time for the 1/2 mile was 12 min, 36 sec. He was the second fastest on the team. I took lots of photos and got several nice shots.

After the race, I tracked him down and we sat talking for a few minutes. I asked if he knew I was there. Yes, he had seen me in the stands. He asked, "Didn't you have a meeting?" To which I replied, "Yeah, but I blew it off. You're more important." He gave my a nod, a half smile and a fist bump. That was worth it all.

Ecclesiastes 3:6 A time to gain, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to throw away;

I may have had to take some vacation time and miss work, but I gained an unforgettable moment with my son.

Perfection

For 12 hours yesterday, I worked outside. My dad had sawed up the broken limbs from last week and mom had helped by piling them up. I spent all morning transferring them to our burn pile. That afternoon, I raked leaves, mowed the lawn, did the trim work, and had the yard looking good by nightfall. It was finally finished.

Easter morning the weather was wonderful and my yard looked almost perfect. Later I thought, I'll have to do all of this again in a week or two. Then I thought about Jesus and giving His life for us. 

John 19:30 So when Jesus had received the sour wine, He said, "It is finished!" And bowing His head He gave up His spirit.

Through one single perfect act, He paid our debts for now and forever. He will never need to do it again and it will always remain perfect.

Happy Easter!

Spring Break

As usual, I took off last week because the kids were on spring break. The only plans included a couple of visits to the doctors for checkups. Little did I know that the week would be absolutely bizarre.

On Monday a lady ran out of the road and hit a tree in my yard. That's not so unusual, except for the fact that the tree is not next to the road and she actually drove through a fairly deep ditch about 20 yards away and still hit the tree head on. 

On Tuesday I was weeding my flower beds and dugs up two rabbits that were only weeks old. They scared me silly. I placed them back in their little burrow and I'm hopeful that their mom moved them late Wednesday night. 

On Wednesday we had lots of stormy weather, so I stayed inside and was mostly lazy. Around 11:15 p.m. we were hit with a sudden thunderstorm with hail and extraordinarily high, sustained winds. Lots of prayers were spoken then.

Proverbs 18:10 The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous run to it and are safe. 

That was scary. It wasn't long until my mom called to tell me about all of the damage next door at my aunts house. The shed had been ripped away, windows on the car and house broken and two trees were down.

On Thursday I ventured out into the blustery cold weather to survey our home. Broken siding, missing trampoline, and three large broken limbs were the results of the storm. I couldn't believe the damage done next door. The front of the chicken house is now twisted and the huge oak had split and fallen,  we were all very thankful no one was hurt.

Perseverance

Last Tuesday I went to see my son run a 3200m race (2 miles or 8 laps). I spoke with him before the race and he said not to expect much because he would be running against some varsity team members. I noticed his voice sounded funny and asked him about his breathing. He just shrugged his shoulders. The race began and he looked great in both form and pace. At the end of his 5th lap, he was clutching his side with a grimace of pain etched on his face. He kept running. His teammates were shouting advice and I was praying for the pain to subside. He kept running. One teammate passed him, but then he lapped another runner. He kept running. He finished the race placing 6 out of 8.

Later I asked why he thought there were problems. He confessed that he probably had not eaten enough that day, nor had enough water. It made me think about how we can start something with all good intentions, look really strong at the onset but weaken halfway through because of lack of preparation. It's not easy to finish in these situations, but credit must go to those who persevere against difficulties.

Romans 5:3-4 And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope.

I must say that although I wanted him to stop for him own comfort, I was ever so proud that he hung in and completed the race. 

Strong Winds

Last Tuesday we quietly waited for a predicted storm to roll through the area. It seemed to be staying north of us. However, around 8:45 pm, the winds began to increase and the lights flickered off - but only for about 15 seconds. My daughter was nervous so I suggested that we go climb in my bed to wait for the stormy weather to pass. A couple of times I looked out the window and noticed the trampoline was nowhere to be seen.

The next morning, we left as dawn was slowly creeping in. We still could not see the trampoline until we headed down the road. We scanned the pasture next door and there it was, tilted to the side, being braced by the net supports. It had cleared two fences (about 12 feet apart). The wind had lifted it up out of my yard and dumped it about 150 feet away. Wow!

Ecclesiastes 11:5 As you do not know what is the way of the wind, or how the bones grow in the womb of her who is with child, so you do not know the works of God who makes everything.

Friday afternoon we were able to take off the slightly bent net supports, roll it onto a trailer and cart it home. The supports were straightened and the pieces put back together. Within 2 1/2 hours, my daughter was jumping on the trampoline that had no punctures in the base or the net. I am amazed at the strength of that wind. I need to pay more attention to the works of God. I bet I would find them even more amazing.

The Walk

I'm going to really try to stay active this spring. Tomorrow begins our team efforts at work. We are to walk more, drink more water and participate in acts of kindness. Today for practice, I kindly asked my mom to go for a walk with me. We headed off to a nice wooded trail and walked about two miles. I drank more water. I even exceeded 10,000 steps today, according to my Fitbit. I got to spend a couple of hours with my mom.

Proverbs 13:20 He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will be destroyed. 

Do I feel better? Yes. It kept me from sitting in my chair all afternoon. Does she feel better? Probably - and for the same reason. We both had fun and forgot about everything except putting one foot in front of the other. It was a wise way to spend the afternoon. 

Time to Move

At work I feel like I'm always on the go, with more things to do than can possibly get done. I push hard because it's my job and I want to earn what I'm paid. At home I feel lazy because I see still more things than I can possibly do, but I would rather sit and read a book to let my mind and body rest. Some of this is going to change.

Last week I signed up for a wellness program at work which is designed to get us moving, drinking more water and just trying for a healthier lifestyle. To keep up with all of that, I bought a Fitbit. I'm almost intimidated by the thing. It measures heart rate, steps, and sleep time. I wore it for the first time last night and laughed when I saw that the results. Apparently while I'm sitting to read or watch tv, it records that I am asleep! 

Proverbs 6:9 How long will you slumber, O sluggard? When will you rise from your sleep?

I guess I should set a timer to remind me to stand up every now and then. :)

Abundant Life

As I looked back over this week, no particular event stood out. My mind wandered through each day without stumbling over an idea. My week was average, but full of events that I won't remember until I return to read this post, i.e. good memories.

Sunday: My daughter and I went shopping for a couple of hours. I smiled watching that 11 year old prance around in heels that were way too high.
Monday: With no supper plans, Chick-fil-A became the winner.
Tuesday: My son needed some help with math, but couldn't begin until after his CAP meeting. Homework and supper for him didn't get started until 9:30 pm. He finally let me go to bed at 11.
Wednesday: I got home a little early after working at another campus. Because of bad weather, my son's track practice was cancelled. He proceeded to eat the remaining leftovers. When I picked up my daughter, we had to eat out in order to get to Backpack Love on time. My son went along so he could get dessert.
Thursday: My son monopolized the evening while studying for a math test. He didn't really need help. I think he just wanted someone there to tell him to stop checking his phone for numerous messages from his friends (at least that's what I seemed to be doing).
Friday: My daughter had two friends visit for a sleepover. I let them make their own pizzas. Around 10:50 pm, the power went out. Once the flashlights were found, they were ok. About midnight they wanted me to join them in the living room. "No way! Get in your bed to stay warm." Another hour passed before the power returned, and they so graciously woke my up to let me know. ;)
Saturday: The girls stayed until 4 while I did 5 loads of laundry and watched Hallmark movies on my iPad. I did make some soup and clean out the laundry room, so I wasn't a complete slug.

Life sometimes seems the same, yet life is unique in the basic experiences you have each day.

John 10:10b I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.

Lows and Highs

After a week off, I came back to work and received what I considered to be a mediocre job evaluation. It wasn't bad, but it wasn't what you want to get when you do all you can to make a difference in your office. It's the kind of thing when you question why you are working so hard; does it really matter; should you do less since you won't get the accolades anyway. That my friends was me with a bad attitude, feeling sorry for myself and wanting my ego stroked.

Hebrews 13:20-21 Now may the God of peace...,make you complete in every good work to do His will, working in you what is well pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen. 

It's not about me, but about what He has placed me here to do. If what I do makes a positive difference for others, then I will be have peace.

My highs this week came from my kids as I celebrated their successes. My daughter was accepted into a charter middle school that specializes in science, technology and art. My son was named Cadet of the Quarter for the local Civil Air Patrol Cadet Squadron. It's not hard to see that my job is something to do, not who I am.

Traveling

I spent 5 days in Biloxi, MS last week at a conference. It was held at the Beau Rivage. Until I arrived, I didn't realize how truly spoiled I was when it came to non-smoking restaurants in my area. As soon as I walked into the hotel, smoke surrounded me. It was noxious for someone who had only caught an occasional whiff for decades. Even dining, it was strange to hear that old question, 'Smoking or Non-smoking?'

Psalm 10:26 As vinegar to the teeth and smoke to the eyes, so is the lazy man to those who send him. 

On our last day, we had 4 hours to spend before heading to the airport. After 4 days of smoke in our eyes, my friend and I didn't want to be lazy and hang out at the hotel so we walked out on the Biloxi Lighthouse Pier. Conversation turned to food and we remembered a BBQ place we had seen from the taxi as we came into Biloxi. After a quick Google search, we discovered it was about 3 miles away. Hmmm. An hour to walk, an hour to eat, an hour to walk back. Doable. Crazy, but doable. An hour later we arrived at the Slap Yo Momma BBQ more than ready to eat. Yes, it was good, however not quite 6 miles good. Either way, it was a great adventure and something we will always remember about the trip.

An American Hero

Heroes come in all sizes and can be from all walks of life. Last Sunday a military hero made the ultimate sacrifice. His name was Chief Special Warfare Operator William 'Ryan' Owens, a U.S. Navy Seal of the elite Seal Team 6. He died during a raid in Yemen in the midst of a two hour gun battle. For 18 years he served our country and this was his 12th deployment. He was a husband and father. He was 36 years old.

I never met Ryan and my connection to him is minuscule. However, when I saw his photo I recognized him from a collection of photographs and memorabilia I had gathered from a local estate auction a few years ago. I purchased all of the photo frames and various boxes in the house that belonged to Ryan's mom. As I removed photos, I realized that I had his entire life, from him as a baby  to graduation to enlistment to marriage to his own babies, displayed in my hands. I couldn't toss the memories that his mom treasured, but I didn't know his name. I sorted photos, read his letters from basic training, and found clues to his identity. The unusual spelling of his wife's name led me to the Internet.

I found a phone number for the only match in the U.S. with their names. I called the Virginia Beach number and left a message. Ryan called back and after a brief conversation, we concluded that these were from his mom's estate. He gave me an address and I mailed the package. I never heard from him again and soon put the memory away. I had no idea he was a Navy Seal, nor did I realize I would ever see another photo of him.

John 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. 

It breaks my heart to know he is gone, but I am honored that I perhaps gave him the means to see again how much his mom loved him.

Running

My son ran cross country in the fall and improved from a beginner in June to breaking into the top 10 at his high school. Now he's joined the track and field team to continue long distance running. Wednesday was the parent meeting informing us of the meets, the volunteer opportunities, and the money required to pay for transportation, etc. (I'm now a sports team parent!)

I Corinthians 9:24-25 Do you not know that those who run in a race all run, but one receives the prize? Run in such a way that you may obtain it. And everyone who competes for the prize is temperate in all things. Now they do it to obtain a perishable crown, but we for an imperishable crown.

He's trying to letter in a high school sport in hopes that it will help when he applies for admission to the Air Force Academy. I'm amazed at his drive to reach his goal because he also has an exceptionally difficult class schedule with all honors or advanced placement classes. He's defined a path and is running in a way to obtain it.

My prayer is that he keeps his eyes on the imperishable crown.

Watchful Security

My baby girl turned 11 this week and we've celebrated for days. Dinners, sweets and presents have surrounded her all week. Is she spoiled? Probably. Yes. She is the only girl and the youngest of my parents' 4 grandkids.

It's been a fast 11 years and I'm writing this as I'm sitting outside a store where she is attending a birthday party for a friend. She's reached that age when she no longer wants me to stay with her at all times, but she wants to know where I am at all times, just in case. In case of what, I don't know. It's just one of those things that makes her feel more secure.

And God does the same thing for us.

Job 24:23 He gives them security, and they rely on it; yet His eyes are on their ways. 

Strange Weather and Good Kids

When a Sunday morning dawns at 18 degrees and five days later the high is 73 degrees, I've usually changed time zones. However, this week it happened at home. That's one of the cool things about living in the Southeast: if you don't like the weather just hang around, it'll be different in a few days. I don't really think winter is over, but the splash of spring this weekend was fabulous.

This is also the weekend that for the past 11 years the kids have been carted to the Picture People for a yearly photo together. Against their will, I force them to go and smile for the camera. This year I found out our usual location had shut down. The kids thought they were off the hook until I decided to do the photos myself, outside, in the spring-like weather. After feeding them at Macaroni Grill, I brought them home to pose out by the lush, green cypress trees. It was fun for me and they actually cooperated. I don't think they are as opposed to the photos as they lead me to believe.

Exodus 20:12 Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you.

Although I'll need to find a way to print the photos, I believe this may be our new tradition.

Snowfall

When you live in he South, snow is not an every year occurance. When the forecasters say there is a chance of snow, it usually doesn't materialize. However, when they say 2-4 inches, you tend to perk up and hold out some hope that the white stuff will fall. You prepare to be inside for a few days because power might go out with pines falling on the lines or roads might be impassable because there's no need to invest in snow/ice removal equipment when we get less than an inch of snow on average each year.

On Friday we prepared. We had some pretty snow whitening the ground around 10 p.m.

Job 37:5-6a God thunders marvelously with His voice; He does great things which we cannot comprehend. For He says to the snow, 'Fall on the earth';

The next morning we eagerly looked out the window to discover...no more, that was it. No more snow had fallen. No snowmen or snow cream were in our future. The tiny bit of snow was frozen and our disappointment was evident.

Now we look on the bright side. We were released early from school and work, we finished the laundry early, we picked up more groceries to cook at home and we stayed warm when the temps dropped to the teens. For all of that I am grateful that God said to the snow, 'Fall on the earth.'

Ice packs and Ibuprofen

I missed writing my blog last week, not because of Christmas, but because of pain. The week before Christmas brought some tight deadlines at work and a tight back muscle. It got worse as the week progressed. By Thursday I was calling my doctor, but with the holidays no one could see me. I used heat compresses, cold compresses, ibuprofen, Icy Hot patches and anything that might bring relief. Unfortunately the pain became my companion.

My doctor referred me to Physical Therapy, but without X-rays I was wary of what needed to be done. It was time to seek other help. On Wednesday I visited a chiropractor who took X-rays and showed me what had most likely been there for many years, but had been aggravated by stress. My spine is curved between my shoulder blades and my neck looks similar to a whiplash injury. 

The solution is to get it all straight again, which is going to take some time. The first adjustments relieved the worst of the pain, now I'm looking forward to Tuesday for visit #2. 

Psalm 38:21-22 Do not forsake me, O Lord; O my God, be not far from me! Make haste to help me, O Lord, my salvation!

I'm starting 2017 with a hopeful outlook that I can be completely relieved of the pain, improve my posture, improve my strength and discover exactly what God wants me to do this year.